Week 8

>> Monday, February 27, 2006

Subhanallah, takjub...
Dilayar USG, terlihat sebuah rongga besar (rahim) yang ditengahnya ada sebuah kantong, gelap, sedikit bergerak-gerak...didalam kantong yang gelap tersebut ada sebuah janin, mungil (kira-kira 1 cm panjangnya) yang denyutnya sudah bisa dideteksi, alhamdulillah semua baik-baik saja.

Alhamdulillah lagi kondisi yang sering berubah-ubah pada minggu-minggu kemarin, sekarang perlahan sudah mulai stabil. Sepertinya dede' nya pengertian, ngga rewel. Mual sudah jarang dan nafsu makan kembali normal.

Setelah fase mual berlalu, sekarang batuk alergi (bukan batuk biasa, kata dokter), tapi kondisinya masih lebih baik daripada mual-mual. Dan karena usia kehamilan masih dibawah 4 bulan, dokter menyarankan untuk tidak minum obat apapun. Semoga batuknya cepat hilang ya...tapi jangan berganti mual lagi =D

Dunia calon ibu...gimanaaaa gitu.
Dunia ibu...gimanaaaa ya?

Catatan penting bagi sesama calon ibu yang menanti buah hati =), dikutip dari sini




1. Karbohidrat dan lemak sebagai sumber zat tenaga untuk menghasilkan kalori dapat diperoleh dari serealia, umbi-umbian.

2. Protein sebagai sumber zat pembangun dapat diperoleh dari daging, ikan, telur dan kacang-kacangan.

3. Mineral sebagai zat pengatur dapat diperoleh dari buah-buahan dan sayur-sayuran.

4. Vitamin B kompleks berguna untuk menjaga sistem saraf, otot dan jantung agar berfungsi secara normal. Dapat dijumpai pada serealia, biji-bijian, kacang-kacangan, sayuran hijau, ragi, telur dan produk susu.

5. Vitamin D berguna untuk pertumbuhan dan pembentukan tulang bayi Anda. Sumbernya terdapat pada minyak hati ikan, kuning telur dan susu.

6. Vitamin E berguna bagi pembentukan sel darah merah yang sehat. Makanlah lembaga biji-bijian terutama gandum, kacang-kacangan, minyak sayur dan sayuran hijau.

7. Asam folat berguna untuk perkembangan sistem saraf dan sel darah, banyak terdapat pada sayuran berwarna hijau gelap seperti bayam, kembang kol dan brokoli. Pada buah-buahan, asam folat terdapat dalam jeruk, pisang, wortel dan tomat. Kebutuhan asam folat selama hamil adalah 800 mcg per hari, terutama pada 12 minggu pertama kehamilan. Kekurangan asam folat dapat mengganggu pembentukan otak, sampai cacat bawaan pada susunan saraf pusat maupun otak janin.

8. Zat besi yang dibutuhkan ibu hamil agar terhindar dari anemia, banyak terdapat pada sayuran hijau (seperti bayam, kangkung, daun singkong, daun pepaya), daging dan hati.

9. Kalsium diperlukan untuk pertumbuhan tulang dan gigi janin, serta melindungi ibu hamil dari osteoporosis. Jika kebutuhan kalsium ibu hamil tidak tercukupi, maka kekurangan kalsium akan diambil dari tulang ibu. Sumber kalsium yang lain adalah sayuran hijau dan kacang-kacangan. Saat ini kalsium paling baik diperoleh dari susu serta produk olahannya. Susu juga mengandung banyak vitamin, seperti vitamin A, D, B2, B3, dan vitamin C.

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Suka Duka Hamil Muda

>> Thursday, February 16, 2006

Berdasarkan pengalaman pribadi beberapa minggu terakhir:

1. Nafsu makan berubah-ubah
Kemarin bisa makan banyak, hari ini tau-tau tidak ada nafsu makan sama sekali, kalaupun dipaksakan bisa jadi mual-mual.

2. Jadi super sensitive dengan bau-bauan
Efeknya lagi-lagi ke mual-mual dan nafsu makan.

3. Kondisi kesehatan berubah-ubah
Kemarin bisa merasa sehat banget, sampai kerja seharian ngga kerasa, hari ini tau-tau lemes, rasanya meriang, pegel-pegel, dan males ngapa-ngapain.

4. Kondisi psikologis berubah-ubah
Kemarin bisa bahagia luar biasa, bisa-bisa hari ini sedih dan hilang semangat.

5. Mendapat perhatian extra dari banyak orang
Sms dari orang-orang tersayang jadi lebih sering, yang pasti menanyakan kondisi kesehatan dan dedeknya. Jangan lupa minum vitamin, minum susu, minum madu, makan yang sehat, ikan, sayur, jangan fast food, jangan capek-capek, jangan sutris, jangan angkat barang yang berat-berat, banyak berdoa ... oh i love you all, matur nuwun... =)

6. Ngidam?
hmm...yang ini masih bingung, apa udah terjadi apa blm ya?
terbayang-bayang pecel, ayam goreng, soto, bakso, mie ayam, ikan goreng...
(ini mah bukan ngidam mbak....tapi doyan!)

Seru lho megalami itu semua...sambil membayangkan ada makhluk mungil di dalam perut kita yang dibawa kemana-mana. Jadi excited untuk segera melihatmu besok nak, meski baru lewat USG.

Sekedar referensi buat sesama calon ibu (siapa tau pada baca, hehe), dari sini:
Ngidam, gimana sih nanggulanginya?

Tidak ada perhitungan akan citarasa makanan pada wanita hamil. Sama membingungkannya dengan alasan mengapa selera makanan berubah saat hamil. Namun penelitian-penelitian telah menunjukkan bahwa antara 76% dan 90% calon ibu mengalami ngidam salah satu makanan selama hamil, dan antara 50% dan 85%mengalami penolakan salah satu makanan. Mual-mual dialami oleh sekitar setengah dari seluruh wanita hamil yang diteliti.

Pada tingkat tertentu, perubahan-perubahan mendadak pada saluran pencernaan ini dapat disalahkan pada hiperaktivitas hormon dalam trisemester (3 bulan) pertama. Walaupun ngidam dan penolakan makanan dapat hilang sesudah waktu itu, di bulan keempat, mereka dapat muncul kembali.

Ngidam makanan pernah dianggap sebagai tanggapan tubuh terhadap kekurangan vitamin, mineral, dan nutrisi-nutrisi penting lainnya. Kenyataannya, tanda-tanda ini tidak dapat dipercaya. Anda tidak dapat menghiraukan ngidam atau penolakan makanan, tapi Anda bisa mengendalikan mereka dengan menghindari makanan tinggi kalori yang memiliki nilai nutrisi rendah.

Selama masa kehamilan, Anda dapat melihat produksi air liur yang meningkat, yang menyebabkan mulut Anda lebih berair dari biasanya. Air liur atau saliva Anda, yang menunjukkan perubahan hormon dalam tubuh Anda, dapat menyebabkan rasa logam dalam mulut.

Beberapa ketidaknyamanan di masa hamil dapat menyebabkan Anda menyesuaikan kebiasaan makan Anda. Bila mual menjadi masalah (biasanya dalam trisemester pertama), maka jadwal makan yang lebih sering dengan porsi lebih kecil dapat membantu, dengan biskuit sebagai camilan dan minum cairan di antaranya. Terlepas dari ketidaknyamanan sementara ini, penelitian menandakan bahwa hasil kehamilan sangat memuaskan. Rasa panas dalam dada dapat diredakan dengan makanan porsi kecil dan menghindari makanan berminyak atau pedas dan kafein. Untuk sembelit, yang dapat muncul selama hamil, tingkatkan konsumsi cairan, makanan berserat, dan buah-buahan serta jus.



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In Defense of the Prophet Muhammad Shalallahu 'alaihi wa Sallam

>> Wednesday, February 08, 2006

source: http://www.salafitalk.net/st/viewmessages.cfm?forum=26&topic=5187

by Shaykh Rabee' ibn Haadee al-Madkhalee (may Allah preserve him)

In the Name of Allah, the Most Merciful, the Bestower of Mercy. All praises are due to Allah, and may Allah exalt the status of the Messenger of Allah and that of his family and his companions, and may He grant them peace.

As for what follows:

Some newspapers and other forms of media have spread hurtful, vicious information that could only emanate from the jealous, arrogant enemies of Islam and its Prophet (may Allah raise his rank and grant him peace).

That conduct comprises a calumniation of Muhammad, the Messenger of Allah and a distortion of his message by jealous individuals and Christian organizations, as well as envious and irresponsible columnists, like those who write for the Danish newspaper Jyllands-Posten.

Its writers mocked the best of Mankind and the most distinguished of the Messengers, Muhammad (may Allah raise his rank and grant him peace), the likes of whose nobility, honour, justice, and manners the earth has never known of. Neither has it known of a more complete and comprehensive message than his, nor a more just and merciful one.

It is a message that embraces belief in all of the prophets and messengers, honoring them and defending them from calumniation and defamation. It has also preserved an accurate history of the prophets, including Jesus and Moses. So whoever disbelieves in Muhammad and speaks of him in a derogatory manner has disbelieved in all of the prophets and disparaged of all of them.

Recently, some uncivilized miscreants made fun of the Prophet, drawing various pictures of him. Twelve despicable pictures, one of them portrayed him (may Allah raise his rank and grant him peace) wearing a turban resembling a bomb on his head.

We say to these criminals and their envious supporters in Europe and America: This is a case of the pot calling the kettle black!

Let it be known that never did Muhammad (may Allah raise his rank and grant him peace), nor his righteous successors or any of his honorable companions, ever establish factories for even the most primitive of weapons, like swords and spears, let alone atomic bombs, long-range missiles, or any other weapon of mass destruction.

Never did Muhammad (may Allah raise his rank and grant him peace) build a single weapon factory. Rather, he was sent as a mercy for the entire creation, to guide all Mankind towards happiness in their worldly lives and in their hereafter, such that they fulfill their Creator's right upon them, for it is He who created them to worship Him alone. Whoever rejects this is truly a criminal deserving punishment in this life and the next, by the Lord of all that exists, the Creator of this universe and its Master.

As for you O Westerners, claimants of civilization, you have constitutions and statutes that destroy upright moral character and permit all kinds of forbidden acts, the likes of fornication and homosexuality, as well as usury which destroys the economies of entire nations, and the eating of improperly slaughtered animals (dead meats) and pork, something that causes the loss of concern for women's values, and thus a man does not feel protective of his wife, sister, or daughter, and thus she fornicates with or intimately befriends whomever she pleases. These are some of the means which lead to ruin, and they have been prohibited in all of the prophetic messages.

As for bombs and all other weapons of destruction, war planes, tanks, and long-range missiles, you are the ones who engineered and manufactured them with your satanic minds that only think about transgression, animosity, oppression, attacking, tyranny, conquering entire races of people and enslaving them, spilling their blood, and usurping their natural resources. You think only about annihilating those who oppose you and stand in the way of your greedy aspirations, your oppression and spreading of hatred. All this wrapped up in the name of civilization, human rights, freedom, and justice!

All intelligent people know this about you. For your dark history is overflowing with uncivil and terrorist acts, a history recorded against you by both your enemies and allies alike.

Anyone who does not know this should read about your history and your occupation of numerous nations, or at least read the history and some horrible results of your two World Wars. For example, the number of fatalities in the First World War in Europe reached "More than 10 million, and they were the elite of their nations' youth. And more than twice this number had incurred serious injuries disabling them for the rest of their lives." [Refer to: At-Taareekh al-Mu'aasir: Uruubbaa minath-Thawratil-Fransiyyah ilal-Harbil-'Aalamiyyaith-Thaaniyah, p.505. (Lit: Recent History, Europe from the French Revolution to the Second World War)]

The number of soldiers killed in the Second World War reached: "17 million, along with another 18 million civilian fatalities - all of them killed within a period of only five and a half years. Experts have estimated that the military expenses alone reached $1,100 billion, and that losses caused by the war reached the value of $2,100 billion. Added to this are the number of entire cities destroyed, the amount of earth scorched, the agriculture that was flooded, and the factories and plantations that stopped production, not to mention the number of livestock that were destroyed or lost." [(Al-Harb al-'Aalamiyyah ath-Thaaniyah by Ramadhaan Land, p.448-449) (Lit: The Second World War)]


The Hiroshima Bomb

Stated the author of the book, "al-Harb al-'Aalamiyyah ath-Thaaniyah" (p.446-447) (Lit: The Second World War), "And perhaps it is appropriate to speak about this first atomic bomb. Let us relay what was reported directly from one of the Japanese in his interview with Marcel Junod, a representative of the Red Cross, speaking about the reality of this most frightening explosion. He said: ?And suddenly there appeared these intense, muddy pinkish lights, accompanied by an unnatural tremor. This was immediately followed by an asphyxiating wave of heat and violent winds that ravaged everything in their path.

Within only a few seconds, thousands of people who walked the roads or sat in the city's main streets were burned alive. A great number were then killed by the intense heat that spread all over. Others were left lying on the ground screaming in pain with deadly burns all over their bodies. Anything that had been at the point of impact ? walls, homes, factories, and other buildings ? was completely and totally annihilated, with all traces of these things sent hurling into the sky in a ghastly whirlwind. Trams were plucked from their steel tracks and flung as if they had lost their weight and substance. Trains were lifted off the ground along with their tracks as if they were mere toys. Horses, dogs, and livestock were all befallen with what befell the people. Every living thing had lost its life in one painful turn of events too difficult to describe. Trees were engulfed in blazing fires, rice fields lost their color, and farms crackled and burned away like dry straw.

As for the surrounding areas that escaped instant death: Homes were crumbled and only piles of wooden boards remained amongst bricks and stone foundations. Everything was crushed as if they were cardboard houses in a zone of destruction 10 meters in diameter. Those who survived found themselves totally surrounded by raging fires. The few people who managed to get to any type of shelter in time died painful deaths from gamma radiation within 20 to 30 days. By nightfall on the day of the blast, the blaze slowed down and then died out, finding nothing left to fuel it. Hiroshima had passed away into nothingness."

These are some of the landmarks of your civilization that you sing and boast about, and become insolent towards Islam and its Prophet with. Yet you continue intensifying every form of oppression and corruption and you go on inventing more and more weapons of destruction, annihilation, and devastation, and this ? by Allah ? is the utmost limit of barbaric and animalistic behavior.

Or do you think that most of them even listen or use their intellects? There are only like cattle, rather, even more astray than that. [Al-Furqaan 25:44]
So crown yourselves with your own bombs, including the Hiroshima bomb and its likes, and crown your leaders with them. Consider all other weapons of mass destruction as your fangs and claws that you use to prey upon wild animals and all of Mankind.

And those who oppress shall see what kind of outcome overturns them. [Ash-Shooraa 26:227]

Written by: Shaykh Rabee' ibn Haadee 'Umayr al-Madkhalee
1426/12/28 (corresponding to 2006/1/28)

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Sikap Ulama Tentang Karikatur Nabi

>> Sunday, February 05, 2006

Sumber: milist Assunnah

"Orang-orang Yahudi dan Nasrani tidak akan senang kepada kamu hingga kamu mengikuti agama mereka. Katakanlah: "Sesungguhnya petunjuk Allah itulah petunjuk (yang benar)." [Al-Baqarah: 120]
Para Imam Masjid Kerajaan Saudi Arabia, kemarin, 27 Januari lalu, mengutuk berbagai surat kabar di Denmark dan Norwegia yang memuat karikatur yang menodai Nabi Muhammad Shalallahu'alaihi wa sallam dan menghimbau negara-negara Islam untuk mengadakan konfrontasi melalui kampanye permusuhan.

Dalam khutbah Jumatnya, Syaikh Usamah Khayyat, Imam Besar Masjidil Haram menegaskan bahwa Rasulullah Shalallahu'alaihi wa sallam menempati posisi teratas bagi umat Islam. "Nabi Muhammad diutus ke dunia sebagai rahmat," ujar Syaikh sembari mengutip ayat-ayat dalam Al-Quran. Beliau menegaskan bahwa kartun-kartun hujatan seperti itu tidak akan sedikitpun merendahkan martabat beliau. Beliau menghargai pemerintah Saudi yang mengambil sikap keras terhadap kartun-kartun yang mencemarkan nama Nabi dan ajarannya. "Pemerintah yang baik ini sudah menghangatkan jantung kami yang menjelaskan ketegasan sikap Islam," ujar Khayyat di khotbah yang disiarkan di televisi negara bagian. "Hal ini menunjukkan perasaannya tidak senang, menegakkan keadilan terhadap Nabi dan memperingatkan bahaya kelanjutan permusuhan ini," katanya.

Jyllands-Posten, surat kabar Denmark terbesar, mempublikasikan 12 kartun September yang lalu, termasuk sesuatu dimana Nabi digambarkan memakai sehelai sorban yang terbentuk sebagai bom. Agama Islam memandang bahwa penggambaran dan karikatur nabi oleh mereka sangat menghujat.

Khotbah Syekh Ali Al-Hudzaify, Imam Masjid Nabawi di Madinah, juga dipusatkan pada persoalan karikatur. Dia mengatakan bahwa banyak orang dulu sudah berusaha untuk mencemarkan nama baik Nabi. "Mereka dilemparkan ke tempat sampah sejarah dan tak seorang pun mengingat mereka," imam mengatakan. Ia menambahkan bahwa Muhammad Shalallahu'alaihi wasallam selalu diingat sebagai seorang Nabi dan pembaharu besar. Imam mengatakan olok-olok terhadap Nabi Muhammad akan dianggap sebagaimana olok-olok yang pernah dilontarkan terhadap nabi-nabi lain seperti Musa, Isa, dan Ibrahim 'alaihismussalam.

Kami menghubungi pemerintah, organisasi dan para ulama di dunia Islam untuk turut membantu melanjutkan kampanye penolakan serangan yang melanggar kesucian Nabi. Mereka juga sebaiknya menyoroti bahaya yang diakibatkan sejumlah vilifications, serta memakai forum internasional dan media informasi, Hudzaify. Perusahaan dan organisasi Saudi sudah meminta pemboikotan produk Denmark sampai harian Denmark tersebut memohon maaf karena menerbitkan kartun.

Para Imam mesjid seantero Kerajaan kemarin memanfaatkan khotbah Jumat mereka untuk mendukung kampanye boikot. Abdullah Al-Othaim, presiden eksekutif Al-Othaim Holding Company, sudah mengatakan bahwa perusahaannya akan memboikot produk Denmark. "Denmark mempunyai kebebasan pers, kami orang Muslim mempunyai kebebasan untuk membeli atau untuk tidak membeli produk mereka," katanya. Keputusan Al-Othaim, yang katanya memasukkan boikot terhadap pemasok mana pun yang memasukkan produk Denmark, mungkin menolong terhadap ekspor senilai SR1,3 milyar yang dieksporke Arab Saudi. "Hal ini adalah kewajiban agama dan sebaiknya dilakukan semua pengusaha," ujar Sultan, manajer pasar swalayan Riyadh yang memberitanda peringatan bagi pelanggan terhadap produk Denmark.

Norwegia mengatakan pada hari Kamis sudah menasehati kedutaan besar Timur Tengahnya untuk menyatakan penyesalan atas cetakan ulang kartun sehelai koran yang berbasis di Oslo. Kari Karame, seorang pakar di konflik dan Timur Tengah di Institut Norwegia Urusan Internasional, menyatakan salah untuk mengeksploitasi kebebasan bicara untuk membela penghinaan yang manapun. "Itu adalah asas yang sangat jelek untuk mengatakan anda bisa mengobati orang yang berbeda dengan anda sebagaimana anda inginkan karena alasan kebebasan berekspresi," katanya kepada Reuters.

Kartun ini telah menimbulkan kegemparan di dunia Muslim. Saleh Al-Wohaibi, sekjen Perkumpulan Dunia Muda Muslim (WAMY), mencap tindakan harian Denmark tersebut sebagai bagian "Kebudayaan Islamophobia". Organization of the Islamic Conference (OKI), Liga Dunia Muslim (Rabithah Alam Islami) dan Dewan Menteri Luar Negeri Arab sudah mengeluarkan pernyataan yang serupa yang menolak karikatur tersebut.

Sumber :http://www.fatwa-online.com/news/0060128.htm
Imams Denounce Danish and Norwegian Newspapers in Cartoons Row

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